Self improvement can certainly include more than one person, and many times a person's quest for self improvement includes members of the person's family. Since the immediate family - and sometimes the extended family- have a huge effect on a person's happiness and well being, it is important to consider bringing the family closer together when someone decides to set about a course of self improvement. After all, people may have terrible days at work or school, but if they come home to a close-knit and loving family it can make all the difference.

The sizes of families vary. For some people, a "family" translates into themselves and their spouse, while other people live near scores of relatives and therefore consider all these people as members of the immediate family. It is easy for disagreements and squabbles to occur among groups of people who love each other, but the hope is that the disagreements are quickly resolved and do not result in any sort of life-long feud. If people find themselves in the situation of having a major quarrel with a family member which has continued to linger on for years, it can sometimes turn into something uglier which forces other family members to take sides. In instances such as these it takes one of the members of the argument to swallow their pride and resolve the situation.

Resolution to quarrels helps not only the people immediately involved, but also all the family members who are involved simply because they love both of the quarreling family members. If a person is trying to make his or her life better, one aspect which should definitely be explored is resolving any conflicts with relatives and close friends. Not everyone has dramatic quarrels with family members, and instead are merely looking for ways to improve family life. People should examine ways which will bring them closer to their family. One of the first things to look at is whether a person is putting himself or herself first instead of the family,everyone in the family should be making sacrifices for each other, and if a system develops where only one person is giving one hundred percent then there needs to be some changes. Families should also make it a habit to spend time together as a family unit. As the saying goes, "The family that plays together, stays together."

If a person is in doubt over what the people in his or her family want, then simply asking the members of the family is the best solution. People might be surprised that the dearest wish a child has is not for a game console or a shiny new bike, but instead they desire quality time with parents. The same goes for spouses,many times a husband or wife would love to spend time with a spouse, but are too timid to ask for fear of appearing needy. If a self improvement goal includes bringing the family closer together, then asking the family members of their true wants and desires can work wonders.